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On July 15, Time Magazine published an article criticizing Love Island contestant Chelley, whose real name is Michelle Bissainthe, sparking backlash from fans who called the coverage racially biased.


The controversy centers around a disagreement between Chelley and fellow castmate Huda Mustafa during the show’s popular “heart rate” challenge. Chelley felt Huda Mustafa took the challenge too far and was visibly upset afterward. When Huda later approached her to discuss the incident, Chelley—still emotional—suggested they talk the following day instead.


Many fans viewed Chelley’s response as thoughtful and mature, highlighting the importance of resolving conflict with a clear head rather than reacting in the heat of the moment.


However, Time criticized her behavior, prompting accusations of double standards and unfair treatment of Black contestants, who, viewers say, face disproportionately harsher scrutiny than their lighter-skinned peers.


Adding to the controversy, the publication initially misquoted Chelley in the article. Although the quote was later corrected, the piece remains live on Time’s website and social media channels, despite thousands of comments urging its removal.

  • Writer: Kyani Reid
    Kyani Reid
  • Sep 15, 2020
  • 2 min read

Although this quarantine has provided us with a lot of free time, it has also given us extra time to doubt ourselves.


Unfortunately, we have more time to doubt our abilities, our skills, and our competence. And while doubt takes over and we become stagnant--time keeps moving on without us. I'm learning everyday to not allow my fears or my doubts to take over my life and am constantly searching for new ways to combat them. Here are five books that have aided me in the fight against fear and doubt.


1. The Power of Positive Thinking by, Norman Vincent Peale

Our mind is oftentimes our greatest enemy. Negativity creeps in and is detrimental to our careers, relationships and goals. The Power of Positivity Thinking aims to change that mentality in order to lead a better, positive, more fulfilling life. I find myself re-reading this book every couple of months to reboot my brain.


2. The Alchemist by, Paolo Coelho

You've probably heard of this book by now and for good reason--it's amazing. Coelho paints an inspirational and beautiful story about a boy on a journey to discover his true purpose in life or "personal legend.” This tale teaches readers various life lessons along the way including overcoming fear and encourages us to follow and embrace our own unique, personal legend.


3. You are a Badass by, Jen Sincero

After I read this, I did indeed, feel like a badass. This book reinforces the sentiment that you can truly do anything you put your mind to. Through Sincero's very clever and engaging writing style, she encourages confidence and challenges you to overcome your insecurities and self-doubt.


4. The Four Agreements by, Don Miguel Ruiz

This is my most recent and probably my most influential read. The Four Agreements is a short, yet powerful book intended to eliminate the excessive agreements or beliefs that society has forced onto us and narrow them down to a simple four. I won’t reveal these agreements (although you can just google them) but I highly encourage you read this book so you can see them explained in full detail. It’s short, sweet, and helps us realize that much of our doubt and fear stem from outside influences.

5. The Gifts of Imperfection by, Brené Brown

I'm sorry to be the one to break it to you but, you aren't perfect. In fact, none of us are. The quicker we accept that, the less we experience self-doubt and our lives become exponentially easier to live. Brown teaches readers how to overcome shame, pursue gratitude, and embrace imperfections in an oftentimes overwhelming, perfection seeking society.


Bonus Book:

Becoming by, Michelle Obama

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I had to throw this one in here because I genuinely, whole-heartedly, adore Michelle Obama (and this picture, teehee). The former first lady grants readers an inside look at her life while providing inspirational insights expressed through her raw authenticity. This is a must read!!


Do you ever have one of those days where you have zero energy to put into your appearance? All you want to do is throw something on and call it a day but look decent enough you don't have to hide in the off chance your run into someone you know. Well, worry not. Here are 6 ways you can elevate a bummy look and turn the most random of clothes into an actual fit.


1. Jewelry

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An outfit can dramatically change once a staple piece of jewelry is added to it. Throw on some statement earrings and you will turn hobo into hobo-chic!


2. Blazer/Jacket

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A nice coat or blazer can go a long way. This is an especially easy task during the colder seasons. You can pair it with a t-shirt and some jeans and voila! You instantly look like you put in some effort.


3. Shoes

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Shoes. Shoes are my favorite subject and might be the easiest way to distract someone from your possibly disheveled look. A unique and stunning pair of shoes are guaranteed to elevate the simplest of ensembles.


4. Purse

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For this one--the bigger the bag the better. Although there are a plethora of small and beautiful bags, to really make a purse or a bag the center of your outfit it needs to call attention. Pair a statement bag with any top, jeans and some sneakers and you have what I like to call, A LUK.


5. Glasses

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When in doubt, throw on a pair of cute glasses. Personally, when I don't feel like doing my makeup, I pop my contacts out and throw my glasses on. Whether they be eyeglasses or sunglasses either option is guaranteed to make you look fabulous. Bonus tip: If you wear your sunglasses indoors people might even think you're famous!


6. Hair and Makeup

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Last but definitely not least, hair and makeup! One of the things my mother always stressed growing up was to, "Make sure your face and hair are neat and your outfit will fall into place." I know, I know, you're feeling lazy, the last thing you want to do is your hair and especially not your makeup. But hear me out, if you do it, it might be the only thing you really have to do! Sure, you have to throw some clothes on as well but with your facial region looking fantastic, who's even looking at your outfit?

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